It’s kind of harsh and you probably won’t like it at first.  But once you see the power in this, you are going to love it.

In fact, it is the key to finding the boyfriend you are looking for.  But there is a little hurdle to get over before you can really apply this method.

Ok, enough warning…here it is.

You’ve been lied to.

Everyone from your best friend to the magazine ads to the TV commercials – they have all been telling you how to find a boyfriend.  Right?  It probably began when you were just a young child.

They told you you have to look pretty.  You have to act a certain way and you have to say certain things.

Well, in their defense, they probably didn’t know they were lying.  They probably had your best interest at heart.  But nevertheless, these were all lies.

And you have proof of that now, don’t you?  You are pretty.  You say the right things.  You act the way they told you to act.  And yet, you still don’t know how to find a boyfriend.

The Unexpected Truth

So let’s get to the truth so that you can find your true love and start living the life you have dreamed of.

Everything that you were told about how to find a boyfriend was from the outside looking in.

• You looked in the mirror with your physical eyes and tried to appear the way you thought he would want to see you.
• You listened with your ears and tried to make your words and your voice sound the way you thought he would like to hear you.
• You bought clothes and accessories and makeup that would create a façade that you thought would attract him.

That all makes sense when you are looking at yourself from the outside.  But the boyfriend you seek is looking from the inside.

Let me explain.

In Your World, He Sees You Through Your Eyes, Not His

This may sound crazy but it is the truth that no one has told you.

So, if you want to know how to find a boyfriend, the answer is in your own eyes.  And now, if I can get a little technical, it is good to know that your eyes are directly connected to your brain.  And your brain is an instrument of your spirit.

So if you really want to find a boyfriend, reverse the order and do the following:

1. First tend to your spirit.  Your potential boyfriend will not be able to resist the magnetic quality of your true spirit.
2. Next tend to your brain.  Believe it or not, your new boyfriend responds to your thoughts about yourself a million times more than he responds to your dress or your make up.
3. Then, once you have your spirit and you mind in a really good feeling place, once you love yourself, and love life, and feel your inherent value, now it is time to look at yourself, but not through your physical eyes.

See Yourself With Your Inner Eye

Now is the time to envision yourself as beautiful.  Take the time to see the beauty of your physical eyes through your inner eye.  With your eyes closed, picture your eyes in the most beautiful way you have ever seen them.

Then see your smile.  With your eyes closed, picture your most beautiful smile.  See it in front of you as if you were looking in a magic mirror that brings out the most beautiful aspect of you. Good!  Now we’re cooking!

Now you are a boyfriend magnet.  And now that you have your inner magnetism in high gear, you can decide how you want to look, speak, and act from a deep inner knowing of your own beauty and your own worth.

The next time you apply your makeup, be sure that you are painting your most beautiful eyes.  The next time your choose a shade of lipstick, choose it for your magically beautiful smile.

When you add the outer adornments to something that is already indescribably beautiful (you) others see your beauty in ways that they cannot comprehend.  They see your beauty and they are drawn to you.  They are drawn to you because your beauty is real.  It is rooted in your beautiful spirit.  And now you know how to find a boyfriend.

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If you wonder, “Will I ever find love?” then you know how strong the desire is to have love in your life.  You see others holding hands and you want that too.  You see others making a life together, and instead of feeling happy, you feel sad because you wonder if that will ever happen for you.  Do you know what I’m talking about?

Well, you can find love, but before you can find it with another, it helps to know it within yourself.

Have you heard of Law of Attraction? It’s worth your time and attention.  It is the mechanism that will bring you the love you seek.  But just like your car, which you must learn to drive before it will take you anywhere, Law of Attraction can take you where you want to go once you know how to work with it.

What is Law of Attraction?

Law of Attraction is the universal law that brings things of a like vibration together.  It moves things.  It can actually bring your soul mate to you.   Like the wind blows the leaves, Law of Attraction can scoop up your soul mate and land him or her right in front of you.  Pretty amazing, huh?  But just like you have to put the right key in your car to get it going, you have to put the right vibration in Law of Attraction to have it bring you what you want.

The Key to Finding Love

Earlier, I said that in order to find love, you must be love.  Now you can see that that is the key to working with Law of Attraction. You must be the same as the thing you want to attract in order to attract it.  The funny thing is that in order to be love, you cannot also be feeling a lack of love.  In order to attract love you want to feel an abundance of love.  But how do you do that when you feel so sad about not having the love you desire?

Imagine More, Observe Less

The master wisdom on Law of Attraction comes from the Abraham-Hicks teachings and Abraham often tells us to imagine more and observe less.   The more you observe the lack of love, the worse you feel. The more you deliberately imagine the good feeling of having love in your life, the better you feel.

Now here is a very easy question:  Which do you want Law of Attraction to bring you more of: the sadness of the lack or the joy of the love?  This is a no-brainer!

Try This:

This technique is simple. 

Spend a few moments in everyday imagining a good feeling love relationship.  Get the warm cozy feeling of it.  This shifts Law of Attraction in the direction you want to go.  And the next time you ask yourself, “Will I ever find love?” you can give yourself the answer of a definite, heartfelt, and authentic, “Yes!”
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The thought, “I need a girlfriend” pushes girls away.

Yes, it’s true.

As soon as you have the thought, “I need a girlfriend,” an invisible force field pops up all around you and blocks you from finding a girlfriend.

Fortunately there are 3 simple steps you can take to fix this and I am about to tell you what they are.

So let’s fix this.  Let’s fix this right now.

The thought “I need a girlfriend” is quite natural, normal, and even common.  When you want something that you don’t have, it is natural to think that you need it.

But that thought is actually preventing you from finding the girlfriend you seek.  And it all hinges on the word “need.”

When you say, “I need a girlfriend,” it echoes in three different dimensions.  And it blocks her from coming to you in three ways.

So before you place your attention on her, it is crucial that you correct this within yourself.  You must bring down this force field, which is silently repelling all your potential girlfriends.

By correcting your relationship with yourself in these three directions, you can become a girlfriend magnet.  There are many ways to do this.  Here is one simple approach that can literally change everything for you.

Force Field Direction A – Above Your Head

Have you ever felt like there is a dark cloud that follows you around?  It may be sunny for others standing right next to you, but where you are there is a gray cloud ruining your chances for love.

The first step in becoming a girlfriend magnet is to let the sun shine over your head.  I’m not kidding.  That cloud is a cloud of need.  As you bring in the sunshine with your imagination, you begin to realize that you don’t really need a girlfriend.  You simply want one.  And that makes all the difference.

At first you may have to close your eyes and picture a bright sun overhead.  With time you can do this with eyes open as you walk around.  Do it all day long.  The rays of your inner sun will burn through the cloud of your thought that you “need” a girlfriend.  And this can instantly make you more attractive.

Force Field Direction B – Inside Your Skin

Have you ever felt that you are incomplete without a girlfriend?  Have you ever felt bad when you see couples walking holding hands?  Like you want it so bad that you get mad at them for having what you want?

That feeling, no matter how natural and understandable it is, is hurting you.  It is strengthening the force field that repels girlfriends.

And you might be surprised at how quickly you can diffuse this bomb before it blasts a hole in your potential love life and causes devastation in your emotions.

This time you are going to see a sun inside your chest.  See it burning brightly right in the center of your body at the level of your chest.  This is your heart center.  It is the place where love is most readily given and received in you.  Place this dazzling sun inside your body and let it radiate so brightly that it fills your entire body with light.

In fact, let your burning desire for a girlfriend be transmuted into this sunlight that burns so brightly that you actually begin to glow.  The light fully fills the space of your body and extends outward so that you are radiating the golden light of the sun within you.

At first you may have to close your eyes to picture this bright sun within you.  With time you can do this with eyes open as you go about your business.  Do it all day long.  The rays of your inner sun cleanse you of all envy, jealousy, and depression. Once you do this for a while, you become more attractive and magnetic.

Force Field Direction C – Radiating From Your Face

This one is easy once you have done the others.  Close your eyes and picture your face.  See the sun above you shining a light that brings out all the most attractive qualities of your face.  And see the light within you radiating from your face in a way that makes you whole, complete, and peaceful within.

Do these three visualizations everyday and watch how your life changes.  You may never think, “I need a girlfriend” again.  And that would be a good thing because once the girlfriend-repelling force field comes down from all around you, you will probably have many potential girlfriends to choose from.

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