This may shock you. Are you ready?
The thought, “I need a girlfriend” pushes girls away.
Yes, it’s true.
As soon as you have the thought, “I need a girlfriend,” an invisible force field pops up all around you and blocks you from finding a girlfriend.
Fortunately there are 3 simple steps you can take to fix this and I am about to tell you what they are.
So let’s fix this. Let’s fix this right now.
The thought “I need a girlfriend” is quite natural, normal, and even common. When you want something that you don’t have, it is natural to think that you need it.
But that thought is actually preventing you from finding the girlfriend you seek. And it all hinges on the word “need.”
When you say, “I need a girlfriend,” it echoes in three different dimensions. And it blocks her from coming to you in three ways.
So before you place your attention on her, it is crucial that you correct this within yourself. You must bring down this force field, which is silently repelling all your potential girlfriends.
By correcting your relationship with yourself in these three directions, you can become a girlfriend magnet. There are many ways to do this. Here is one simple approach that can literally change everything for you.
Force Field Direction A – Above Your Head
Have you ever felt like there is a dark cloud that follows you around? It may be sunny for others standing right next to you, but where you are there is a gray cloud ruining your chances for love.
The first step in becoming a girlfriend magnet is to let the sun shine over your head. I’m not kidding. That cloud is a cloud of need. As you bring in the sunshine with your imagination, you begin to realize that you don’t really need a girlfriend. You simply want one. And that makes all the difference.
At first you may have to close your eyes and picture a bright sun overhead. With time you can do this with eyes open as you walk around. Do it all day long. The rays of your inner sun will burn through the cloud of your thought that you “need” a girlfriend. And this can instantly make you more attractive.
Force Field Direction B – Inside Your Skin
Have you ever felt that you are incomplete without a girlfriend? Have you ever felt bad when you see couples walking holding hands? Like you want it so bad that you get mad at them for having what you want?
That feeling, no matter how natural and understandable it is, is hurting you. It is strengthening the force field that repels girlfriends.
And you might be surprised at how quickly you can diffuse this bomb before it blasts a hole in your potential love life and causes devastation in your emotions.
This time you are going to see a sun inside your chest. See it burning brightly right in the center of your body at the level of your chest. This is your heart center. It is the place where love is most readily given and received in you. Place this dazzling sun inside your body and let it radiate so brightly that it fills your entire body with light.
In fact, let your burning desire for a girlfriend be transmuted into this sunlight that burns so brightly that you actually begin to glow. The light fully fills the space of your body and extends outward so that you are radiating the golden light of the sun within you.
At first you may have to close your eyes to picture this bright sun within you. With time you can do this with eyes open as you go about your business. Do it all day long. The rays of your inner sun cleanse you of all envy, jealousy, and depression. Once you do this for a while, you become more attractive and magnetic.
Force Field Direction C – Radiating From Your Face
This one is easy once you have done the others. Close your eyes and picture your face. See the sun above you shining a light that brings out all the most attractive qualities of your face. And see the light within you radiating from your face in a way that makes you whole, complete, and peaceful within.
Do these three visualizations everyday and watch how your life changes. You may never think, “I need a girlfriend” again. And that would be a good thing because once the girlfriend-repelling force field comes down from all around you, you will probably have many potential girlfriends to choose from.
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